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being human. we compare. we compare everything we do. we compare everything other people do. we take pride in knowing that what we did was better than what another person did. we feel happy when we're better. we feel a sense of accomplishment knowing that we beat the other person. but sometimes. its not about comparing. we feel horrible when we lose out. we feel horrible when we fall short. we feel terrible when other people fall short of OUR expectations. we get frustrated when we compare. "why isnt she doing it the way SHE did it?" "why isnt she doing wat SHE would have done?" we compare and in the end we end up hurting ourselves. nothing is accomplished. help me stop comparing. please.